Whats is the best bedroom bondage kit you can buy for £40? in peoples own opinions. please don't refrain from answering XD
preferably i'd like it to have quite a bit of restraint so the victim doesn't move so much
easy points or star available
a website of where to find it would be useful also |
| You can buy some rope and some cheap wrist and ankle restraints for that. Lay them on a bed and tie them spread eagled. |
My boyfriend is really into dominatrix and bondage things in the bedroom. give me ideas :D? Basically, as valentines day is coming up, i thought i would treat my boyfriend to something special in the bedroom :P and i know his turn ons are dominatrix and bondage and that sorta thing. i've never done this sorta thing before so i was wandering if you could give me some ideas or tips. thanks (: |
I appreciate that you are willing to explore such play for sake of your partner. The possibilities for activities are too broad to answer without knowing more of where his interests lie. Plus, I don't think this site is an appropriate venue for such discussions. I think you would fare better if you posted this question at collarchat.com in the forum Ask a Mistress. These types of questions come up there from time to time and you will get ideas from many who regularly engage in these activities.
My advice is to also think about what you enjoy and what is important to you, and see if you can do this in a way that incorporates what you enjoy. Doing so will make it more fun for you, less draining, and more interesting to repeat. |
I would like to know how would a woman know what a man would like in the bedroom if he's into bondage? He likes tieing me up and doing things to me. How do I know what to do for him to bring him pleasure. This is all new to me. So I dunno much about it but would like to return the pleasure to him. Sorry if this is a weird question. |
| It's human instinct for guys to get pleasure from dominating and girls to get pleasure from being dominated [on a subconscious level]. During foreplay, have him hold your arms above your head and kiss you hard while you're up against a wall. Also, a sex position that you might want to try could be up against a wall. How you do it depends on the height difference between you and your man. If you two are close in height, stand with your back to a wall and have him hold you. If you have a big difference in height and he's strong enough, wrap your arms around his neck [so your arms are resting on his shoulders] and wrap your legs around his waist. Have him hold you up and then enter you. To give him pleasure in general, just kick back and enjoy being tied up. |
Bedroom bondage and other fun? Ladies and guys,
Have you ever used handcuffs etc to restrain your lover and have some fun with them?
My wife and I use them sometimes and its an enormous turn on for us both.Its her who likes to cuff me,she does not like being cuffed.
It does drive me wild!
Anyone tried it?Like it or dislike it? |
| I like it. |
How do I tell my man I want this in the bedroom? I have always gotten turned on at the idea of being tied down and taken advantage of. How do I let my man know I would love some bondage in the bedroom? |
it will not work immediately, but you better start by letting him be in control, avoid to be on top, ask for doggie always then ask for spanks as a beginning, then one of those time when he is in good mood, just lay and ask him to do all the job. when he is done tell him how much you liked that he was in full control on you then suggest that he tie you up in bed so you get more pleasure, guess at this stage he will not hesitate to do it. good luck.
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How do I discuss bondage with my man? I am trying to get things spiced up in the bedroom department. My husband loves bondage, both ways. I would rather be the "dominator". No offense to my husband, but I don't really get off when I am the one tied down because he crosses the line from pleasurable to OUCH! It isn't very sexy to be directing my "dominator" on what feels good. Is this something I should address before sex, after sex, during sex?? Or should I just leave it be since he likes it? |
| You need to have an open discussion before you begin sex or bondage. Tell him what you don't like. If you wait until it's happening he will think it's part of the act. Maybe you can tell him something he hasn't done and you would like him to do. Likewise he can tell you things you can do to him that you don't now. Lay it all out on the table. |
My husband has become way to freaky in the bedroom and I need advice? My husband has gone from kinky to downright freaky in the bedroom. We have been married 2 yrs and his first obsession was anal sex. So we tried that then he wanted to try bondage and we experimented with that. Now ,I think he's crossed the line. His latest sexual request involves him wanting to pull my tampon out with his teeth and taste it?
Has anyone ever heard of this? Has any woman ever had this done? |
Wow...............just......wow.
Sin |
When visiting over night, is it impolite to tell your host that the bedroom accommodations are not acceptable? They are apparently into bondage (S&M) and the guest bed had chains and restraints attached to it. The chains went across a filthy mattress that was very uncomfortable. There were many items made of leather that made me feel a little uneasy. Like whips, masks, hoods, etc. They live in a small two bedroom house and that room was the only place for me to sleep, so I just did my best. Should I have spoken up before going to bed? |
| I wouldn't have, although it does sound a bit disturbing. You were just visiting so it's not like you have to see that stuff again. Just be glad you had a place to stay. |
Do you think it is weird I have a fantasy of taking full control in the bedroom? Do you think it is weird I have this fantasy of taking full control of my boyfriend in the bedroom? I just wanna take full control and make him do what I want. I don't meant bondage or anything too extreme but I would kinda like to bring hand cuffs into the fold and cuff him then tell make him eat me out possibly even slowly strip while he is cuffed and can't touch himself. Is this weird? |
nooo
just do it..
trusst me, its even more arousing for the guy ;) |
Is it weird i have a fantasy of taking full control in the bedroom? Do you think it is weird I have this fantasy of taking full control of my boyfriend in the bedroom? I just wanna take full control and make him do what I want. I don't meant bondage or anything too extreme but I would kinda like to bring hand cuffs into the fold and cuff him then tell make him eat me out possibly even slowly strip while he is cuffed and can't touch himself. Is this weird? |
| listen carefully. That is totally HOT |